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Learn the Art of Saying 'NO'

“Mam I have a peculiar issue, I cannot say No to my friends, never, never ever am I able to say No. I feel so guilty if ever I force myself to refuse what they want me to do and due to this I generally land in severe problems or debts. My friends also end up misusing me to a great extent. “This came from a young IITian whose energy and mind power was unmatchable. Without wasting more time we started the session and he was very much clear in what he felt and did not shy away in telling me that it’s very difficult for him to get convinced in this new therapy and also that it’s not easy for him to go into trance. Having said this by now I can easily make out who will get benefit and who will not. I knew this boy will get complete benefit and easily drift into deep trance, so it happened he easily drifted into somnambulistic trance. Actually most of the clients relate to hypnotism shown in TV shows and have created a totally wrong picture of the same as such the concern however the feeling vanishes after their session.

What comes to your awareness?

Its an open ground lots of mud is there…

What are you wearing?

I am wearing slippers….big slippers….shirt pant….….I am wearing blue color shirt and white or cream color pant, I am around 30….many children are playing….many are playing cricket…some are running…..I feel I am searching something or I guess its someone…

I have a son who is playing…I came to find my son….looks like I am searching him...I found my son…he was playing there….I came here to find him, I am walking there are many houses…independent houses….I am taking my son to my house….we are passing through some very good houses but we do not live here…we live somewhere else…we are not so rich….my son is also looking at those houses….we reached our locality…road is there…small houses are there it is not so posh….I reached my house….2 bed room house is there….one small kitchen is there….normal house…..no show piece things….my wife is there….she is wearing saree(an indian dress)….she is beautiful….my name is Prahlad….the year is 1986 and the place is Ujjain….my wife’s name is Arti….

We are eating food….it’s a nice family…..now we are sleeping……someone has knocked the door…I am going to open the door….2 people have come…the two people are angry and want something from me….they are asking something….they both are my friends….they are not angry they are begging for something…….I am not giving them…It seems that have taken some money from them…I have money but I am not giving them….I am telling them that I have finished that amount etc….am not giving them….I am saving money for my child….one of them needs money because his son is not well..I think I have become selfish and am not returning money to them….I am thinking my son will not go to school if I give him the money…the person started crying because his son is very sick…..I told them to go out of my house…. Am going to my bed and sleeping again.

I am in some factory…..Khiraj Industries…..there are many machines….I am 35 years old….am wearing helmet and shirt and pant…torn shoes….no uniform…..I started watching from above…I think I got heart attack….I fell down…many people came…

I died before going to the hospital….got cardiac arrest….my friends son passed away because he couldn’t cure him….after that my life was not the same…..after that I have been living in guilt…..my friend was a good person…who helped me when I needed, but why I did not help him….when I knew that he lost his son…I felt very guilty and this feeling started eating me up….my wife also left me….because I felt very guilty and stopped taking care of them too….I was always guilty and felt lost…..

Oh I am able to relate to my issue now ..Maybe that’s why I feel guilty now…and maybe because of that I am unable to say no to my friends and go to any extent to help them….don’t say no to any of my friends….many friends misuse also…but still I don’t feel bad….I did one mistake again I will not do ….I am watching my body…the people have no idea where my family lives…they took my body to morgue….

There is light….i get happiness when I do things for others….I want everyone to think good for me….so I help even random strangers….if I don’t think about myself I will lose my identity and I cannot work for others even…so it’s telling me to work towards myself….

There is an internal desire….that people should like me….even if someone is angry I try to tell them lovingly don’t like to hurt people…can’t confront people….

I guess I clearly see my answers now!!!!! Thank you so much mam for helping me overcome this issue. Thanks again….




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